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Take charge of your mind | Who is behind the steering wheel | Visionary Visuals

Updated: Dec 14, 2023

Welcome, to another episode of Visionary Visuals, where I tell the story of the Fabulous One Fractal selves. You will learn who they are and how they interact so you can recognize them within yourself.

Who is really in charge, you might wonder?

Very often, spiritual teachers will tell you that the unconscious mind is in charge, but what do you see when they say that? So, I try to make it a little more tangible by giving you a visual. Now, I apologize in advance if maybe some of the stuff I present to you also comes across as dark, but sometimes there's just no way around it. And we're all big girls here, right? We're all adults. So, there is no need for me to hold back. In this image, you see the fabulous self, the fake self, and the frequency self.

The one that's in jail is the fabulous self. The fabulous self is your conscious mind. Your conscious mind is the one who should be in charge, but the unconscious mind took over, which is the lady with pink hair. I call her the fake self, not because she's a bad person, but because she's the unreal self. The fake self can take over because she is the middleman or middlewoman between the frequency self and the fabulous self.

The frequency self is the body, the divine feminine energy, or the subconscious mind. Now, looking at her, you might wonder why she is half-naked. (lol) - I want you to have this Amazonian Warrior feel when you think of the divine feminine. A wild woman instead of this picture society tries to brainwash you with. There is nothing feminine about the divine feminine energy. She is a warrior queen who will bite if you irritate her. Now, if you piss her off, she can destroy you. She is beyond powerful, but she doesn't know it. That's why the fake self can put her in chains and whip her like a workhorse. Boss her around, and tell her what to do without you having any say-so.

Doesn't it feel like that sometimes?

Let's say you want to diet. The conscious mind comes up with this idea, but if she is separated from the subconscious, the chances are 99% it won't happen because the unconscious interferes. She will not want the body to be healthy because that doesn't work in her favor. She will keep the body in her old patterns and tell her to eat the cake. So many times, you try to resist, but you can't. Ok, just a few chips, but before you know it, you ate the whole bag. Who was in charge, again?

I will use the same signature styles on the Fabulous One Fractal Selves. The conscious mind will always have blue hair, the subconscious mind, the divine feminine energy, will always look like a bald warrior Amazonian, and the fake self will always have pink hair.

Neuroscience has figured out that your subconscious decides before your conscious mind realizes what's happening. The conscious mind then justifies with logic and the reason why she made the choices; on a surface level, it will sound very reasonable. Still, looking deeper, you will see that the subconscious had already stirred the conscious mind in her chosen direction. The fake self knows who she needs to keep under her control to move forward and stay in power. But, first, she trapped the conscious mind in a prison of shame and guilt, which left the subconscious mind open for the taking. She then presented herself as the new leader and convinced the subconscious she was working in her best interest to keep her safe.

How do you know that what you think you know is true?

How can you see beyond your perception of reality?

So the tricky part is to become aware that the unconscious mind has captured you. Luckily, it's easier now, with so many people like myself who have gone through a spontaneous spiritual awakening and can tell their story, so it becomes easier for you.

But what I have discovered will turn all the old teachings upside down, which is that it's not about just awakening the mind. It's about awakening the mind and body. So your body is a mind who needs to wake up too. And it has to happen precisely in this order:

Phase One: The fabulous self must become aware that the unconscious has locked her in a mental cage.

Phase Two: Once she frees herself, she must free the frequency self from the chains of the unconscious mind.

Phase Three: When they are free, they can handle the fake self together and transcend her into the light, which means shadow integration.

How? Start simple.

Give yourself a task and see how well you do.

If, at first, the task is easy, keep increasing the complexity until you hit a wall.

For example, you would like to go to the gym once a week. Great. How well do you do? Easy? Yes, ok, make it twice or three times a week. When do you hit a point where you find yourself stuck in time management? When does your body feel tired or protest to take you to the gym? When do you quit altogether? When you do quit, how do you get yourself back on track?

Every time you make a decision, these three selves are involved, and you must become aware when you place yourself inside your mental cage or in charge of the carriage.

If you make a promise and break it. What is it that you tell yourself to make it ok? How often have you done that?

Look at your life right now.

Do you have everything you want?

Do you feel great about yourself?

Don't answer me. Answer yourself. Your soul wants to know, and your fabulous self has the answers if she is honest.

Now comes the mindblowing part:

The fake self isn't real. She's a fiction of your imagination.

The fabulous and frequency self, the mind, and the body have created the shadow to referee when not in alignment. Someone needs to keep them apart so they appear separate. You have created the fake self so you can have an individual identity.

The fake self allows you to separate yourself from the collective unconscious, the group mind, and, unfortunately, from yourself. You must accept the thought you have locked yourself up. The door was never locked. You can walk out whenever you choose to.

The real question is: What are you afraid of?



The Master's Mental Model replaces your old framework and gives you a new one where you can veto the inner saboteur's input whenever she decides to show up and leave her two cents. In the Master's Program, you will learn how to detach from the collective group mind (6D)and restore the connection to your Soul Mind (5D). Once you've activated your soul realignment, you can call upon your inner soul's guidance without the interference of the shadow self. The Fabulous One Framework® is a new lens of perception that empowers you to believe in yourself and see a world full of possibilities. For more information please click the button to watch the explainer video.


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