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What happens when you open your third eye in your day to day life

Updated: Dec 14, 2023

What does it mean to see through the third eye? We talk about it in mystical ways and have fantasies about being superhuman. But what is the practical application of seeing with your third eye? What changes in your real life when you can see with your third eye?

In this next video, I will give you my take on it.

The biggest win when you see through your third eye is that you can see your inner saboteur coming. You know, sometimes I have visuals about this. Like my inner saboteur is sneaking up on me from behind in my blind spot, right? Walking up to me with a baseball bat, and in a moment of weakness, she knocks me unconscious.

If I act crazy (you can ask my husband) or overly emotional, usually with my daughter… it’s because my unconscious mind knocked me out, hahaha. Now, I am no longer in charge of what’s coming out of my mouth, and I will blame them for stuff just because. Just recently, I dropped my daughter off at school, but she didn’t look over her right shoulder and into the mirror to make sure a car wasn’t coming from behind. She was too busy staring at her phone, and at that moment, I lost my cool and I shouted at her because I was scared she would get hurt. After I calmed down, I told her I loved her, and my anger might have seemed over the top, but that was just because I was trying to keep her safe, and she took me by surprise. It also made me realize she would have gotten out of the car. It would have been my mistake. Very often, your inner saboteur won’t admit she is at fault, so she will get angry at the other person for making her look bad. So, if I go deeper, I get angry because I would feel guilty if she had gotten hurt, and there is nothing worse than your own mind becoming your enemy.

So, in order to keep the peace, I screamed at her so my inner saboteur would not scream at me. But when the moment has passed, I come back to my senses. I apologized and pleaded temporary insanity because there was no logical explanation for my behavior other than saying I was upset. I am sure there are plenty of people who have no recollection of what happened, but usually, there was alcohol involved. But let’s just say our emotions take over, and we become unconscious.

Seeing through your third eye means you can experience the same situation as if you are having an out-of-body experience. You move outside of your body and see what happens in slow motion. That is why I can sit here on camera and be honest about what happened because I saw it with my third eye. Someone who is unconscious would never admit to something that nobody saw. The inner saboteur mantra is: “It wasn’t me?”

There is a biochemical response that happens inside our bodies when emotions take over. You can even feel your body heat up if you pay attention. You feel uncomfortable and hot. We go into a fight-or-flight response. It means your blood rushes to your arms and legs and away from your brain. Your body will remove blood flow towards your frontal cortex and allocate it to the places she feels are more important. So, it’s no joke you feel temporarily insane. The body removed your ability to think logically and within reason. Coherence in thought patterns has left the building.

When you see through your third eye, your inner saboteur can no longer put your body in a fight-or-flight response. So even though it’s a stressful situation. Your body will not change your blood flow because you stay calm and collected. Your blood pressure will stay the same. You can clearly see what is happening in front of you is a stressful situation, complete panic, but you don’t react in an emotional way because you can still think logically about what it is you are seeing right in front of you.

You don’t jump to any conclusions, and you will inquire to get to a deeper truth. Something you won’t be able to do when you are unconscious. Unconsciousness doesn’t allow you to be inquisitive and further investigate what happened in order to make sure it doesn’t happen again or get more clarity. If the inner saboteur is successful in knocking you out. You won’t ask questions. You just assume you know, and you will react out of fear, protecting yourself. When you see through your third eye, the fear is not there—no more fear. And when you don’t fear a situation, you don’t mind asking the hard questions even if you don’t like the answer.

Your inner saboteur’s biggest weapon is to scare your body into a fight-or-flight response because every time she is successful, she will cut off your conscious mind. In my book, I call her the fabulous self because she is the genius brain that will come up with fabulous strategies to keep you safe or help you prosper if she is aligned with the body.

When you see through your third eye, you can watch or look at something upsetting and still keep your cool. Not because you won’t take action or help, but first to make sure you have an accurate image of the reality you are seeing. Where it becomes supernatural is because your third eye can freeze space and time. It’s as if you can see what’s happening in slow motion, and it gives you plenty of time to react because you saw it coming from miles away, but we are talking about split seconds, but that delayed response is maybe the difference between just being disappointed with your child or giving her a major butt whooping only to realize you might have overreacted. Or before you accuse your spouse of doing something wrong and getting mad. You already saw he didn’t do it on purpose, and it was an innocent mistake. You won’t even react in a negative way.

These moments from complete love and mad anger are seconds, not minutes or hours. Your inner saboteur can take you from 0 to 100 in 17 seconds. That’s how long it takes for more negative thoughts to join the party and turn this whole event into a big drama. But when you see through your third eye, you will freeze the moment in your mind and look at every detail at your own pace. 17 seconds feels like 17 minutes, and you can access the situation and look at it from every angle and give the appropriate response.

Don’t get me wrong; sometimes, anger is the solution. Some people might believe that opening your third eye means you will no longer be angry, ever. But that is only for the Grand Masters in Secret Monasteries who don’t live among the people. They are not on our frequency. Normal people like you and me can open our third eye, but we are young masters, so we will still have moments where we choose to be angry, but at least you know you chose it consciously, and your inner saboteur did not knock you out. When your third eye is open, your inner saboteur can no longer surprise you, but it doesn’t mean you will be untouchable.

There are many layers and levels to this. And just because a certain situation doesn’t get to us. It doesn’t mean the next one won’t. It’s all about expansion. And training your mind to keep yourself steady at the vibrational frequency of your higher self. With time and with many experiences, good and bad, you will get better at it.

Seeing with your third eye means you can say no to something, feeling no emotional remorse, no anger, no shame, no guilt. You can walk away because you chose to. You understand that is the best choice at that moment. Without making the other person wrong or retaliating. You just walk away. Of course, you don’t want to walk away from your children or your husband. And when you see through your third eye, you can assess the situation from a 360 degrees angle and find a win-win solution. You will choose your confrontations carefully. You will know what needs addressing and what you can let go of. Not everyone is worth your attention, even if it’s anger. When you can see through the third eye, you will ask yourself, “Do I really want to fight? Do I want to spend time and energy on this negativity? Will this come to a positive conclusion if I choose to express how I feel? Do I believe this person wants the best outcome for us or just the best outcome for him or herself?” You don’t care anymore about being right. All you want is to be happy. So, if someone wants to argue with you or behaves in a negative way. You already know if you are going to accept what that person has to say because you saw that person coming a mile away. And you will stay calm and say: “No,” and walk away.

When you can see through your third eye, you will no longer fall for the victim mentality. You know what your fault is and what isn’t. You will take responsibility if it’s your fault, but it doesn’t mean you will apologize. It just means you know that this relationship has ended, and you wish them the best in life.

When you see through the third eye, your positive and negative thoughts are used as navigators to understand how you feel. You will not be persuaded by either or, but you use them as a tool to move yourself in the right direction.

When you can see through your third eye, it means you have merged your conscious mind and your subconscious mind as one. One plus one equals three. Synergy. You have created a third. A third eye that can see.

Guess where that leaves the inner saboteur? She will dissolve. She will no longer be. Who are the conscious mind and the subconscious mind? They are the divine masculine and divine feminine energy. When they merge. They become the sacred union. As well known in Alchemy as the Sacred Marriage. When the Red King and the White Queen unite and become whole. All of you become light, and light knows no shadow.

You will prioritize your sacred marriage over anything else. You will not let it go for anybody. Nobody. Not your children, not your husband, not your parents, not your brother/sisters, and not your friends. Peace of mind will become your truth once you have experienced how that feels. You will allow no one to take it from you. Many will try to test you. They will try to take your energy by all means necessary. Even if it’s negative.

Our kids are like that. If we don’t pay them any attention. What happens? They’re going to act naughty so that we pay them attention. Your husband is the same way. You don’t give him the attention that he wants. He’s going to act naughty in order to get that attention. Attention, positive or negative, it doesn’t matter. It creates the same response in the body. When you are unconscious, you might believe that positive is better than negative. When you see through your third eye. They are both the same. And you will consciously choose which way to go.

So, we need more heart-centered mothers that use their third eye to help awaken the world, Make the world a better place. To raise children that can see through the third eye from an earlier age. If you want to learn how to awaken your third eye, study and do writing exercises. You’ll have to come to a deeper understanding of Self.

Put your thoughts on paper, make them real, and work with them. You will need to dissolve your old mental paradigm and replace it with a new one. Adopt a new way of seeing. This will take time. That is why I have created my Fabulous One Framework. My freedom of mind method will help you break free from the matrix and awaken your third eye. Join my self-mastery school for moms, and I will show you how.



The Master's Mental Model replaces your old framework and gives you a new one where you can veto the inner saboteur's input whenever she decides to show up and leave her two cents. In the Master's Program, you will learn how to detach from the collective group mind (6D)and restore the connection to your Soul Mind (5D). Once you've activated your soul realignment, you can call upon your inner soul's guidance without the interference of the shadow self. The Fabulous One Framework® is a new lens of perception that empowers you to believe in yourself and see a world full of possibilities. For more information please click the button to watch the explainer video.



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